Category Archives: Ongoing Change

You are in your process of development, but have you included those around you?

Your work, their problem? Just as you are adapting to your new self, so are those around you. They have known you in a certain context and some will need time to adapt.  I say some because there will be those people who support you completely in what you are doing. There will be others…

The importance and misnaming of “failure”

The work of improvement When I was in high school, I played the trombone. I know, I know, how cool was I?  I was never very good at it but I did play for several years in both the jazz and concert bands.  I tried playing the guitar a few years ago as well, but…

The deafening noise of what doesn’t exist

The volume of my thoughts I’ll admit that my mind has gotten noisy as of late.  Despite the yoga and meditation, I’m becoming a victim of my run away mind.  This large life change has brought out the voice in my head that tells me: I can’t do this I’m an idiot Everybody else is…

Is it your habits or your situation?

Changing the outside I’ve moved several times in my life just like you.  And in my situation, I’ve moved continents (North America to South America to Africa to Asia) in a span of 17 years.  I’m not a nomad or a traveler it is just that when I move for work, I really move. But…

Are you just used to fear?

When fear is needed Interesting question isn’t it? If you are operating from a place of fear to most things in your life, then you are not alone. Think about it.  How much of what we do is in fear of the consequences if we don’t do it? There are some consequences that warrant a…